Father's Day 2006 was going to be a very hard day. That is easy to understand. It is the first Father's Day without my father. Since he passed away early this year it has been a struggle. I knew this day would really be hard.
But, it was a lot better than I expected. That was because of my beautiful wife and awesome son. First, Norma let me sleep in, which is a pretty rare thing. Having a 19 month old makes sleeping in pretty difficult (but the afternoon nap is a nice thing). Norma also made muffins for breakfast, which tasted great.
Aidan brought me a present over to me. He seemed to know it was Father's Day and was real excited to see me. I credit Norma for pumping him up on the whole deal. So we opened
...this blog entry interrupted by baby laptime as Aidan wanted to watch Backyardigans from my chair...
Anyway, Aidan brought me the gift bag and we opened the cards. Then he ran off with my t'shirt that Norma got me before I could open the bag. He finally brought it back and smiled while I opened it. It was a brown t'shirt from Target that says, "Cool Daddy" with snoopy on it. Pretty nice. So I wore it all day yesterday. I was going to wear my Steelers Super Bowl T'Shirt to remember my Dad, but this was better and put me in a better mood. (I have the Steeler shirt on today)
We went to the mall to let Aidan run around and burn some energy. He had a ball as usual. It's our Sunday ritual. Then we came home and made a little lunch and all had a nice nap. (I didn't get to bed until super late the night before... just couldn't sleep)
After we woke up and had a nice dinner we went to Starbucks for a treat. You know you are addicted to Starbucks when the lady behind the barista knows your order before you say it. This time I asked for a tall cup with whipped cream in it for Aidan. That made his day! He was pumped to eat whipped cream out of a cup.
Then after Aidan got to bed it was workout time for Norma and I. We both had long runs scheduled. She runs on the treadmill and watches the baby monitor and I take to the streets. Running at night is really the only option in June here in Houston. It is Africa Jungle hot! I went 3.5 miles and Norma ran 2. We are really starting to get back into pretty good shape. Whew, we really needed to. We have worked out every other day for the past month. (pats himself on the back)
Today I take the car in for tires and an alignment. Ouch it's going to crush me in the wallet. But, we'll live.
Once our monsoon rains stop here in Houston I need to cut the grass. It's growing like crazy with the heat and all this rain.
Next week Norma and I have training for Gifted and Talented all week. So it'll be back to work, kinda. I have been spending a lot of time thinking about school next year and I am super pumped about the new school opening.
I just wish my Dad could have seen the school. He would have really been excited for us. But, I wish he could have seen a lot of things this year. Including Father's Day. He deserved many, many more days for us to show him how much we loved him.
Now I know how Norma felt this year on Mother's Day.
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