



To Aidan,
Happy first birthday son. I am writing this letter as my birthday gift to you. You already know some of the things we got you as toys. You have been banging on the boxes and playing with them as much as you could. But, your mom won’t let you open them until tomorrow. We can’t wait to celebrate after work tomorrow.
There has been nothing in my life that has been more important to me – than you. You are the most important because your mother and I brought you into this world with all the love we have for each other and it resulted in the most perfect and beautiful boy we have ever seen.
The last year has been the very best of my life. I am 35 now and feeling a little slower, fatter and definitely older. But, when I look at you and see myself in you… I realize that a part of me and a part of your mother will always live in inside you. That is the most awesome feeling in the world.

We have high hopes and dreams for you. The biggest dream is that you are happy. Everyone says, “That’s the happiest baby I’ve ever seen.” You smile and smile and smile. We can make you laugh at any time. And we often do, just out of the blue. Your laugh is full of an energy and spark that is unique. I know that I don’t have that kind of spark inside me… not like that. I’m not sure your mom does either. But you have it. And it is going to be my sole responsibility and job number one that you never lose that.
Throughout my life I have overcome a lot and have gone through good and bad times, but I didn’t learn until later in life how important it is to enjoy. Your life is going to fly by and years from now we’ll dig this up and read it and I will say –
"That seems like yesterday that it was your first birthday! That is why every day that we spend with you is a gift. So on a day that is your first birthday we are going to try to shower you with love and gifts… but it can never equal what you have given to us. We are the luckiest parents in the world.
Happy First Birthday Aidan…
I love you.
Dad